Jealousy is a tangle of thoughts and emotions triggered by perceived threats to a relationship, and it gets a bad rap because of the way some people act when it hits them. It’s destructive if acted on aggressively, but it can be a useful signal if it’s approached as a force for good.
Here are few tips why Jealousy is welcome in a relationship.
REMINDER OF LOVE; Jealousy is simply a sign of love when we care for someone and don’t want to lose them we start feeling jealous.
Jealousy shows that you love your partner and things related to her/him affects you. In this case, you need to remind yourself that your partner also loves you as much as you do.
MAKES YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRONG; When you see someone else getting close to your partner or try to flirt with her/him, you feel jealous about it and doing things to get your partner attention. In this way, you bring back the spark in your relationship and make your relationship strong.
IT HIGHLIGHTS THE INSECURITIES; when you get jealous you see your insecurities and you try to spend more time with your partner to heal yourself. This way you make your relationship stronger than before.
COMMUNICATION BOOSTER; Jealousy can help strengthen your connection when you talk about it. The key is healthy communication instead of bottling up your jealousy and letting it boil out in unhelpful, passive aggressive ways–like ‘Sorry I don’t have a body like that girl flirting with you all night at the party,’ Instead, you say something like, “I have to tell you, I got a little jealous watching that beautiful woman flirting with you tonight. You look so handsome.”
GOAL FUEL; Jealousy can alert you that you’re unhappy with some aspect of yourself, and it can be just the motivation you need to take positive steps toward changing it. it can also serve as a reminder to be the best partner you can be, so use it to show just how much you love your partner.
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THE GIFT OF MUTUAL REASSURANCE; Think about it this way: when you’re feeling jealous, it becomes quite clear about how satisfying reassurance can be. In other words, you want your man to say, “There’s nothing to be jealous about. You’re everything to me.” What you probably didn’t assume is that he feels assured too when you’re honest about your feelings. “For him, there’s the reassurance that you care enough to feel jealous and value the relationship enough to step up your game,” Everyone likes to feel appreciated and valued.
if you are in a relationship you must trust your partner. But sometimes in some situations, you feel jealous and it’s obvious. This is a good sign as it shows that you love your partner and care for them.
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